Choices

Every single day we have countless opportunities to make choices. Not making a choice is one of them. We seem to forget that it is up to us to create the life that we dream of within the little control that we possess. But small as the control might be, the ability to choose is always there. We may think that something or someone is limiting us from making a choice, but is it really so?

Think of a recent situation in your life when you blamed someone else for the outcome. I personally find myself often looking outside for excuses and justifications that only I am responsible for; and responsibility takes work. Today, after reading Lily's blog, I made a commitment to myself.  When tempted to look at life from a blame or depressed view point, I will instead count my blessings.

When looking for the blessings in your life, someone advised, "Start at the top of your head and continue all the way to your feet."

LIGHT!

Winter days ... In Spain, even during the cold months, we enjoy some life-giving sun. You look out of the window and the bright sun still gives you the comfort of its warmth behind the glass.  I need sun, I need light constantly in my life. Sometimes I feel like a lizard moving from one place in the house to another seeking the light; then, I place my face against its direction and enjoy it ....

The same occurs with people, don't you think? Some seem to emanate light and comfort when you are around them; there is an energy that is contagious and envelops you by being in close contact with them. Those are the persons that I want in my life: not flashy, not loud, not "important". Just those who know you they are and by that realization allow you to be who you are and accept you unconditionally.

May you find them in your daily life.

Blogging!

Hello, my dear students!

In my first blog, I want to greet you all to our class. Here is a first assignment:

Post an answer to this message telling me your thoughts and feelings about our experience with Elise in the library. Was it useful? What new information did you learn? Do you have any suggestions for improvements? Be sure to follow Elise's directions and spellcheck your messages before you send them.

I look forward to your comments!

Dr. Jaen